Archive for Emotional Healing
When God Doesn’t Rescue
Posted by: | CommentsEver wondered why God would refuse to rescue you when you are going through the most difficult time of your life?
A few months ago, I found myself in the worst storm of my life. The waters raged all around me. They filled my boat. The wind blew violently. The boat of my life creaked and groaned and at times, barely stayed afloat during the storm. The wind and water were thunderously loud. I could hear no voice above the noise. Many days, I was unable to even call Jesus’ name to ask for rescue. I felt so abandoned by God that I couldn’t even read my Bible because it felt so painful to look into the Word I had lived by, my most precious manna, and feel it had failed me. I couldn’t listen to the music of worship because it reminded me of the intimacy I had once felt with God and other people I cared for. Prayer seemed impossible because I felt I no longer knew how – the ways I had prayed before must have been wrong or inadequate. And many days, I felt so betrayed by God Himself that I was unsure whether or not He was a reality.
Work in Progress
Posted by: | CommentsThe following was written by a friend of mine, Kathy Norman, and I wanted to share it with you all.
You really want to take my shame?
Take my fears?
Salty ocean of my tears?
Then take them all.
Take the ashes of burnt dreams
Ceilings bowed from weakened beams
Stony walls built so high
Mortar hardened over time
Take the fragrance that was cost
When my innocence was lost
You really want what’s in my heart?
Take the failures, losses, gains
Until nothing else remains
Please forgive that I forgot
What a messed up
Place You bought
The light is on
The door’s unlocked
Make Yourself a Home.
The Validation of a Human Heart
Posted by: | CommentsWhat does it mean for someone to validate your heart?
I want to define “heart” as the part of us we might call our soul. Our soul is often defined as our mind, will, and emotions. Here is more of what the dictionary renders as a definition of soul:
the principle of life, feeling, thought, and action in humans, regarded as a distinct entity separate from the body; the emotional part of human nature; the seat of the feelings or sentiments; the animating principle; the essential element or part of something
So what I am asking you is, “What does it mean for someone to give value to your feelings, thoughts, and actions?”
Value – relative worth, merit, or importance
I looked the word “validate” up in the dictionary and found this definition:
to make valid; substantiate; confirm
I was thinking recently of how someone had deeply validated my heart and the unexpected way that those simple words had impacted me. I realized that I had a hunger to be validated – substantiated – confirmed in my feelings, thoughts, and actions. As I meditated on this, I had a subtle feeling that God was teaching me, not only about myself, but about humanity as a whole.
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